stuff about me i guess:
when i was around 10 i used to get so annoyed when women did that thing where they subtly hint to their husband/boyfriend they want something specific like flowers are whatever, and when the man doesn’t understand she gets all mad but she won’t freaking tell him she just wants some damn flowers because “that ruins the gesture”
and so i’d always say like no i’m just gonna tell him i want flowers if i want them, then he knows and this hinting business is stupid.
and they all said awwww you’ll change your mind when you’re older bluhhh.
i even believed them for a while.
but here i am, seventeen, people are sending flowers and nice things because i had my wisdom teeth out, and i looked at them and said i think i’ll tell my boyfriend-ish person to send me some flowers, i’d like some from him.
my aunt just stared at me for a while, processing, and said good for you. i think i just earned respect hoo hoo.